I’M NOT A PITBULL.
I’M THE GUY WHO HELPS YOU OUTTHINK ONE.
I’ve been barked at by pit bulls.
And yes — I’ve barked back.
But with 37 years of divorce law experience in Monmouth County, I can tell you this with confidence:
Barking doesn’t win divorce cases.
Smart strategy and great teamwork do.
That strategy starts with education — when a lawyer teaches the client what matters most, and they work together toward the best possible outcome.
EVERY DIVORCE CASE IS DIFFERENT
It’s a mistake to compare your divorce to anyone else’s.
Why? Because every case has:
Different people
Different incomes
Different kids with different issues
Different judges
Different lawyers
Different financial realities
Different health concerns
Change just one of those things — and you get a totally different result.
That’s why you need a strategy that’s built for your specific situation.
WHO I AM
I’m Steven J. Kaplan, a divorce lawyer based in Colts Neck. I’ve practiced family law in Monmouth County for 37 years.
If you’re considering divorce — or already knee-deep in it — my free NJ divorce course will help you get through it smarter, stronger, and with fewer regrets.
CLIENT SUCCESS STORY
"...he made sure that I understood,100 percent, every step of the process that he was guiding me through. And although quite kind, he fought hard for what he believed was in my best interest and Thank God he did. With his help, I was able to rebuild my life. I survived because of Mr.Kaplan's services, and highly recommend him if the need ever arises."
– K.S., Rumson
IF YOU’RE GETTING DIVORCED, YOU’VE GOT QUESTIONS
What’s going to happen with the kids?
What about your house?
Your retirement accounts?
How will support work?
Will it be fair?
I help people facing divorce in Monmouth County cut through the confusion and get real answers — starting with my free, easy-to-understand online course.
Whether you’re just starting to think about divorce, or already in the thick of it, you’ll learn everything you need to:
Make smarter legal and financial decisions
Work better with your lawyer (even if it’s not me)
Avoid common — and costly — mistakes
Get the best possible outcome under your facts
WHAT YOU’LL GET IN THE COURSE
Bite-sized daily lessons – no overwhelm
Clear, short videos – covering what actually matters
A simple roadmap – so you always know what’s next
Legal, financial and emotional strategies – for real life
Lessons from actual cases – what worked, what didn’t
Confidence – so you stop feeling like you’re in the dark
WHY I CREATED THIS COURSE
For decades, I’ve seen the same pattern:
People who understand the divorce process get better results.
When you know what to expect, you can:
Communicate more clearly with your lawyer
Stay calm when things get tough
Make strategic decisions instead of emotional ones
Save money by being more efficient
Feel less fear and more control
That’s why I built this course — to give you the same insights I give my own clients, even before you ever step into my office.
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING
"...Steve is a fantastic, deeply experienced, professional divorce attorney, and I interviewed several before choosing him.
If you want a cutthroat attorney I’d say he’s not that guy, but ask yourself if that’s really a productive approach because it really isn’t in the end.
I found that when emotions are running high during a divorce, you need a professional, logical and very experienced attorney to see all the options and provide the best advice. Steve is that guy! I’m glad that I listened to him then, and now 8 years later I’m still glad that I listened to him."
– J.F., Freehold
"Steve Kaplan is the only family law attorney I will ever refer anyone to see. He helped me through a difficult divorce with issues including child custody, child support and division of property about 10 years ago and has been available and easily reachable for any concerns I’ve had over the years since as my children came into adulthood...They listen and help to get the best possible outcome in the most cost effective way possible. Steve himself was by my side through the whole process and never became impatient or insensitive.,,"
– C.L., Middletown
READY TO START?
If divorce is inevitable — and you’re here in Monmouth County — then let your spouse bark away.
Join the 5,000+ people I’ve already helped.
Let’s build your personalized divorce strategy — together.